Prepare: Find a picture of Baljeet and Buford from “Phineas and Ferb” (and if you have not watched any “Phineas and Ferb” go watch some!)
Yeah, Baljeet and Buford! Buford is a bully and Baljeet is his usual target, right? Buford picks on him all the time. So, I imagine that Baljeet is always plotting a way to get back at Buford, right? Baljeet is smart and has a good reason to find some way to embarrass or hurt Buford. He probably has secret plans and is building a Doofenshmirtz-style ‘Inator (if this doesn’t make sense – go watch the show!), like an anti-bullyinator.
That’s not true though, is it? Baljeet and Buford actually care about each other. Buford protects Baljeet, and Baljeet stands up for Buford when people say mean things about him. They have even saved each other’s lives several times! Isn’t that a little strange? Buford is a bully! Why would Baljeet stand up for him?
I think that Baljeet and Buford have gotten to know each other, and understand how the other person feels. They know what really hurts the other person, and they know how to help each other feel better. This is something that is easy in a cartoon, but how well can we do that?
Alright, this next part is just in your head, don’t say anything out loud! I want you to just think about someone that you might call an enemy. This is probably someone who is hard for you to love, right? What do you think would happen if you acted with love around them? I don’t mean that you should try to give them a hug right away or anything, but what if you treated them like a friend? What if you got to know them and let them get to know you? It’s harder to really not like someone when work hard to understand them better. You might never be good friends, like Baljeet and Buford, but maybe you can find ways to be more caring.
Let’s listen to what Jesus has to say about this, too. (Either read the Gospel text here – or re-read Matthew 5:42-48 if it has already been read).
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